Around
this time of year we all seem to have a little of the blues.
Sometimes it just cannot be helped. What with the holiday rush and
the stress of either having family over or not being with family.
(Funny how it works that way isn't it?) Anyway, I want to share with
you all a true story that really sort of puts things into
perspective.
By trade, while I would like to think of myself as an entrepreneur,
I am actually a Firefighter/Paramedic. I have been doing this line
of work for two decades and in that time have seen more than my
share of holiday tragedy. One Christmas a few years ago I was on
duty and we received a call for "woman down, possible
cardiac". In the course of the response I really had a moving
and life altering experience. Each time I tell this story my eyes
well up. Please bear with me and read on.
We arrived on scene to find a nicely decorated home in an upper
class neighborhood. My partners and I jumped from the rig and
grabbed our equipment. The front door flew open and a woman came
running out screaming, "Hurry, please hurry...she is not doing
to well!"
We entered the home and inside there were no less than 20-30 family
members all crowded around a beautifully decorated tree. A couple of
these family members were small children. Beneath the tree amongst
the packages yet to be opened I could see my patient lying
motionless. A family member, between sobs, stated "She has a
weak heart, she suddenly collapsed, please do something". I
checked her and found that she was indeed in full arrest. Looking
around I realized that the children should not bear witness to what
was about to unfold and I requested that someone please remove them.
Family members stated together, "Do what you must. We are a
family and we can handle it". My crew and I began our
resuscitation efforts. My monitor showed a "flat line"
rhythm known as asystole. Few people recover from this rhythm. I
thought of this as we proceeded with our efforts. A tube was placed
to assist her breathing. We performed CPR. And I administered
medications via an IV I initiated. The rhythm remained unchanged. I
tried an external pacemaker to no avail. And this is when it
happened.
I discontinued the pacemaker and was about to move the patient to
our rig for transport when I heard a faint whisper. It grew louder
as other family members joined in. It was soon recognizable. It was
the Lord's Prayer. The family was holding hands and reciting the
Prayer over and over as we prepared to move their elder member. We
got the patient loaded onto our stretcher and all of the sudden the
lights on the Christmas tree seemed to grow brighter. This is no
exaggeration. I have no explanation for it. They grew brighter and
actually seemed to glow. As I attached the stretcher restraints, I
glanced down at the cardiac monitor and saw that there was now a
rhythm. I told my partner to "hold CPR, check for a
pulse". I could not believe it...she had one! Weak at first and
a little slow, but it grew stronger as we moved toward the door. As
we exited the family continued their prayers. We loaded the patient
into the rig and left for the ER, which was about 5 miles away.
While she remained unconscious, her vital signs actually stabilized
enroute and by our arrival at the ER she was beginning to show good
signs in response to stimulus. My crew and I went outside, shared a
hug and cried. It was not my first "code" and would not be
my last, but to this day no other calls left so an impression on me.
I still refer to it as "The Christmas Code".
Two weeks or so after the call the patient was released from the
hospital. I only heard from a family member shortly afterwards when
they phoned me to say "Thanks for the most wonderful Christmas
present that there could ever have been." What they did not
realize was that it was I that received the real gift. And that is
the crux of the reason I am sharing this story with you.
You see, when I went to work that morning I was depressed. I did not
want to be there, I wanted to be home with my little girl and my
wife. I felt so sorry for myself that I had temporarily forgotten
why I was there. That call reminded me.
I don't
often share this story. I simply prefer not talking about
"work" too much. The moral of my story is clear. Each and
every day is a precious gift. Regardless of your religious
convictions, this story applies to all of us. As this season of love
wraps up, make sure and take the time to let those whom you love
know how important they are to you. The family member that called to
say thanks put it best. "We knew she was ill. But she was
feeling fine. And then she collapsed. When you left with her Jim,
all we could do was talk about how badly we wanted to say we loved
her one more time. We just wanted another chance to do it. Now we
will have that chance"
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